How do You Create Intimacy When Your Relationship Seems to be on Rocky Ground?

Couple in bed, man sleeping woman looking at him feeling very frustratedIn several recent posts I have discussed how intimacy develops over time. And that the important ingredients for its foundation are honesty and openness – building a firm foundation of trust in one another.  That’s sounds easy but what if your relationship is on somewhat rocky ground? And what I’m talking about feels way out of your comfort zone…?

The first thing to ask yourself is ‘What happened?’ Where did things go awry? And why…?’Continue Reading

How Do You Keep the Novelty & Fun Alive in Your Relationship?

Young couple doing salsa or latin american dancing togetherIn a recent post I discussed the importance of  consciously working on the relationship and like plants relationships need tendering to grow and reach their full potential. That if not cared for consciously, that lack of effort over time can create havoc on what was once a truly loving union.

Relationships need constant tendering to maintain the connection and deepen the intimacy…

… And that’s not always easy to do. So what are some things that you can do to keep the relationship alive and fresh and continually grow together?Continue Reading

Nurture Your Relationship & Watch the Love & Affection Deepen & Grow

A silhouette of a mature tree against the sunset and a quote from John Lennon that love needs to be nurturedWhile my analogy may sound cold or objective… relationships are no different from pieces of machinery. If not maintained and nurtured they fall apart.

So what’s important?… it’s important to maintain it, nurture it, and keep it in tip top condition so that you create and have the relationship of your dreams…The relationship that you deserve… Keeping the love tank full and never lifting your eyes from the road you’re on and the destination you both want to reach.Continue Reading

Say No to Negativity & Criticism in Your Relationship & Watch Your Relationship Flourish

Youn couple having an argument Several posts ago I mentioned the importance of creating a negative free environment as a means for a relationship to develop and deepen in connection…

Agreeing to foster an environment with a zero tolerance for negativity or criticism is a powerful decision to make to ensure that your relationship has a solid foundation to grow and deepen in a very loving supportive manner. Continue Reading

Are you Playmates? Do You have Fun & Laugh Together? Powerful Ingredients in Loving

Couple having fun together on a balcony

Image by imagerymajestic courtesy freedigitalphotos.net

It’s well known that couples that have fun and laugh together… have the foundation for a healthy and solid relationship… one that is bound to deepen in love and connection to and for one another.

It’s clear to everyone that these couples have a sparkle in their relationship… that they enjoy being in one another’s company… But have you ever wondered why?Continue Reading

Don’t Let the Sexual Connection in Your Relationship Fade. An Active Sex Life is Healthy

‘Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. ‘Yes’ is the answer’  Swami X

Newlywed couple enjoying sexual connectionThe elephant in the room for many relationships is sex…

Sadly this is one area of connection that many couples lose quite early on in their relationship… the busyness of life initially interferes with their having an active and fulfilling sex life, and then it all gets too hard.

Excuses take over and having a conversation about sex let alone initiating it becomes challenging!Continue Reading

Trust & Respect…The Foundations to a Healthy, Deeply Loving, Connected Partnership

Older couple lovingly holding one anotherHaving a truly loving relationship that deepens over time… fully connected and devoted to one another is what most of us desire and deserve. If that’s what you want then it’s important to ensure that your home and its environs epitomize that love. And that the home environment is a safe haven or place where you both feel that love… a place where you both feel safe with one another and secure at all times…Continue Reading

Are You the Best of Friends? – 3 Keys to Having a Healthy Loving Relationship…

Young couple sharing a milkshake togetherWe all want our relationships to be healthy, loving and fulfilling…It’s what every couple deserves and in the ideal what we all dream about…

I’m sure that you wouldn’t be reading this article or visiting my site if you weren’t seeking this or didn’t agree with me…And while you may have experienced some bumps along the way the intention for all of us is for our relationships to be truly loving and fulfilling…and for them to deepen over time…Continue Reading